How to Reach Orgasm Using a Dildo

If you’re having a tough time reaching a full orgasm, you shouldn’t despair. It’s a common issue. You can solve it with some research, patience, and most importantly, sex toys! So sit back and keep reading to learn how to orgasm using a dildo!  

Some Women Have Never Had an Orgasm 

Unfortunately, not all women have the ability to orgasm. Compared to the male genitalia, the vagina requires a different kind of stimulation. In addition to this, orgasms could prove to be difficult for women who are suffering from stress and other psychological issues. Another thing that could impact a woman’s ability to reach climax is a lack of foreplay during intercourse. While many women have an active sex life with a partner without ever getting off, it’s time to stop and think about what you’re missing!

If you have never experienced a full clit orgasm or G-spot orgasm or if you are always having difficulty reaching one, it’s important to note that this is incredibly common. That is, you shouldn’t believe that there is something wrong with you. Additionally, you shouldn’t give up because there are many things to try that could help you get over some female orgasm problems. A strong and successful climax requires patience, build-up, mental relaxation and stimulation, and many other factors. 

Fortunately, with a bit of determination, experimentation, and help from a partner or a sex toy, you could finally reach that massive release. But first, bear in mind that you’ll need to be open to pleasing yourself and learning the intricacies of your body. The same goes for your partner. 

How Foreplay Can Help You Reach Orgasm 

In most cases, foreplay can build up your arousal levels. It brings more blood to your erogenous zones and genitals. This includes the vagina, clitoral area, nipples, etc. Mutual masturbation, teasing, oral sex, and similar can also cause a spike in your heart rate. What’s more, sexual excitement causes the vagina to self-lubricate, i.e., to get wet. 

All in all, foreplay is an essential stage in sex. It should last around 20 to 30 minutes and more. This will depend on the individual woman. Additionally, it is also important for mental stimulation. You could share fantasies and intimate, romantic moments with your partner. This can also boost arousal levels. 

However, if foreplay isn’t working out for you, it may be better to try some things on your own. Solo masturbation can help you explore your erogenous zones and your body. It can improve your sex-consciousness. Women who have never gotten off should take their time and explore their bodies during foreplay or solo sex. It’s an important step towards learning how to reach orgasm.

How the Use of Dildo Can Help You Reach Orgasm 

In recent years, sexual therapists have strongly encouraged the use of sex toys. They can refresh your sexual pleasure and allow you to learn about your intimate needs. Overall, vibrators and dildos are some of the most efficient toys for the female climax. They can be used as sexual aids during masturbation. If you are using adult toys on your own, you can relax and let your imagination roam wild. 

Dildos are not only intended for solo masturbation. It’s possible to use one with a partner. In this case, if your partner is unfamiliar with your clitoral area and erogenous zones, using a toy during foreplay could solve that issue. A lot of couples use dildos especially for their foreplay because it’s a great tool to spice things up and, can help hit the right spots.

Furthermore, dildos will not be limited by stamina or the urge to ejaculate. If you use one with a partner or during solo masturbation, you can take as much time as you need. This will allow you to learn about the techniques that arouse you the most and hopefully, get closer to that explosive orgasm. 

If anal orgasm is your thing, then you know anal play is the way to go. We suggest that you get to know all the basics of anal play before you get started with butt plugs. Anal orgasm is different from regular orgasm, but why not experience both?

Techniques to Use Dildos for Masturbation, Foreplay, and Eventually Reach Orgasm 

It’s a common fact that over 30% of women can never achieve orgasm solely through vaginal penetration. This means that even the best or biggest dildo may not be able to get you off.

When you get your first toy, take some time to experiment with it during solo sessions. Set the mood (candles, ambiance) and make sure that you have enough time so that nothing can distract you. 

Then, you can focus on warming up and stimulating your erogenous zones with your fingers. Simply explore any area with a light touch. Focus on what feels good. If you are not able to create a lot of natural lubrication, it’s advisable to use artificial lube. 

When you feel ready, you can grab your new toy. Of course, you don’t have to slide it in just yet. You can try several different strokes on various erogenous zones. When it’s time for penetration, remember that you can try tons of new movements. Remember that your dildo will not ask for any satisfaction in return, and you can literally try anything that you like! 

Some of the best techniques to experiment with here are standard thrusting (deep and long or shallow and short). Another trick is to rock it in and out at a slight angle to stimulate your vaginal walls. It’s also possible to make circular motions and try some G-spot stimulation. You can even insert the dildo without using any movements. Additionally, always try clitoral stimulation at the same time. If you’re feeling brave, you can also try anal with your dildo or double penetration with multiple toys. 

Remember, go slowly and focus on the things that bring you pleasure. This will build up your excitement, and hopefully, you’ll be ready to have an intense orgasm! 

When you’ve mastered the techniques above and discovered the things that you like the most, you can try the same tricks during foreplay with a partner! Depending on if you’re solo or coupled, you should experiment with all sorts of techniques. Don’t be afraid to use your imagination and maximize the potential of your toy. So grab a dildo, light some candles, and good luck!